Jacksonville, Week 16

Hi everyone!

So...

This week literally whipped by. I have no clue where all the time is going. My Visa finally came through so I'll be leaving for Brazil after this transfer, which is kind of sad. I really do love the people here. Also my Portuguese (especially my speaking and my comprehension) needs to be wayyy better, so Sister Zanella and I will be increasing our Portuguese use a ton for the next 3 weeks. In any case, it's been really nuts, because we're visiting all of these less-active and investigators we love and since it's the Christmas season, we're suddenly getting fed a lot more, too. We're going to have a particular companionship emphasis on finding this week so that we leave this area in great shape. We'll both be going after this transfer, because S Zanella has one transfer left in Temple Square and then she goes home (where she'll only be an hour or so away from me, yay!). I wonder if they'll transfer more sisters into our place or just close us down (which wouldn't be bad because remember, this ward has two more sets of sisters. And a set of elders. And a senior couple. This WARD. The work is hastening here!) Also, I don't know about the car, which we may just leave at the mission office. There are no cars in Brazilian missions, which will be fun, but on rainy days I may miss our Malibu (affectionately nicknamed the Maliboat, because it has some really wide turns). But I am so excited for this change and I am doing my best to prepare, so pray for me with the language!

I don't have much time left, as per usual, but I can tell you all a really need experience that happened this week: Mark had been telling us about how he was sure he had some ancestors who were among the first Mormon pioneers in Utah (which was basically all he had initially heard about the Church), so we invited him to the Wednesday night Family History class to find out more. Hannah came as well to help us and she was a really invaluable resource, because she's been diligently doing her FH since she got baptized. We set up Mark with afamilysearch.org profile and started pulling up records of his parents and grandparents so we could put them in too.  Mark was awesome, pulling names and places out of his memory so we could find and match them. But then, of course, we got stuck trying to find one great-grandmother who he couldn't remember the maiden name for, but Sister Zanella, with far more diligence and patience than I possess, discovered that this grandmother had been Pearl Houtz before she married James Coomes and then we struck on a family line stretching back, in some places, to the 1400s. Even better, we found the pioneers! And amazing conversion stories that people had written down and posted on the site. One of his 4th-great grandfathers joined the Church, moved to Nauvoo with his family, where he had the Prophet Joseph Smith often in his home, built a wagon to cross the plains, and ended up giving that to Brigham Young when his broke down. Another faithful grandmother recorded two of her children being healed of serious injuries through the power of the priesthood, which eventually let to the conversion of her husband. The spirit there was really powerful and we could all feel that those people were there with us, helping us to learn more. Mark, even more than any of the rest of us, was so excited to learn all this about his roots. And he knows that his ancestors are there helping him with his conversion, just like they made this journey in the past. We're going to share some of his ancestors' stories at his baptism this week. So that was an incredible miracle as well. Anyway, I'm clean out of time but I love you all! See you figuratively next week!

Sister Nielsen

Pictures: Lesson and pizza at Mark's last Tuesday. From left to right it's Johnny, Mark, Haylee, me, S Zanella

Our fantabulous picture for S Zanella's Christmas cards home

Week 15, Jacksonville

Hi everyone,

I hope everyone is having a great holiday season thus far! Did you watch the Christmas devotional last night? I loved it; I was looking forward to it all week.

Wow, the holidays are busier even for missionaries. I'm trying to think back on everything that happened last week and it's been something of a blur because we did so much. But we also had a little more down time than usual because Sister Zanella got really sick. She refused to stop working and I didn't argue so much after the first day, because I knew I'd do exactly the same thing in her position, but Elder and Sister Andrews (senoir couple in our ward and in our apt complex who are in charge of mission medical) finally put their feet down and demanded that she come back early a couple of nights to sleep.

We went with Hannah, a fantastic 18-year-old convert of three years, to come with us to teach Mark on Tuesday and we saw that he had no food. He got a job but he wouldn't be paid til next Monday, so he would be finishing all these houses for the next week with nothing but coffee to eat. He's so cheerful and would NEVER complain, but we saw that the work and no food was really running him down. As missionaries, we couldn't do anything, but Hannah saw the pain in our faces and got together with Haylee (another fabulous 18-year-old convert) to gather and buy about 2 weeks worth of groceries for Mark. He got a little misty-eyed as we bustled around filling his cupboards at the "angels" who'd come into his house, but it really wasn't us, it was Hannah and Haylee. I love them both so much. Haylee started her mission papers yesterday and I couldn't be more pleased. In return for that, Sister Zanella took his jar of coffee, the last thing he needs to quit, and carried it home to take a picture and triumphantly throw it away. It means so much to her because she's seen how far he's come. He made it to Solomon (the ZL's gator)'s baptism yesterday and received a priesthood blessing afterwards to help with his health and I think both were great experiences. He also made it to the devotional last night, as did Haylee, Johny (recent convert as of August) and his friend Larry, so it was a fabulous experience also.

We also taught Timmy this week, who is our second progressing investigator. He lives with Brother Snider, a recently reactivated menber who is building the largest motorcyle on the planet. No joke, he installed a truck engine in it. Brother Snider advised us to teach the lesson pretty simply because Timmy, although he is in his forties, has difficulty understanding a lot. But Timmy asked fabulous questions and totally blew us away with how much he learned, both from what we had taught and what he heard in gospel principles last Sunday. We meet with both of them every Tuesday, which is always a weekly highlight. We'll be teaching the Plan of Salvation next and I'm quite excited.

Something neat happened the other day: as we were going to visit Mike (another investigator who just can't seem to read the BoM), we ran into Treneice (a recent investigator, Mike's neighbor who he referred). She is the most gorgeous lady ever but lives in a really tough situation, so we've just met with her a couple times so far to establish a teaching relationship and let her know her worth. Sister Zanella really wanted her to have a Book of Mormon but we didn't have one last time, so she pulled it out now and gave it to Treneice, telling her just a little bit about how it would bless her life. She was running out the door, but she said "I'm definitely going to read this book!" So two nights ago, as we were finishing up with Mike on his porch, she pulled up and we gave her some birthday cupcakes and started talking. Then out of nowhere, she said "I started to read that book y'alls gave me and I was so confused!" [Sister Nielsen's inner thought: oh no oh no red alert does she hate us now?] "So as I was reading, I didn't recognize any of these names! There was only one I knew." [Inner thought: Probably "Jerusalem", though maybe "Sam"?] "It was 'Messiah'. So anytime I saw Messiah, I read that verse because I knew it was important. Will you please come sometime and tell me more about this book?" [Inner thought: *flatlining*] So that experience was pretty incredible. But even more than that, I loved Treneice's approach to reading, which reflects the approach we should all have to life. Anytime something came up that she didn't understand (which happens constantly to all of us), she did NOT give up but instead looked to the Savior for understanding and knowlege and found it, too! I hope that I can learn from her example, both in scripture study and just in everything I do, because Christ really is the answer and the light. Anyway, that was pretty amazing.

Haven't got much else for you this week, not because we aren't busy but because my brain is all thinked out now. Love you all!

Sister Nielsen

Pictures: Mark's "stolen" coffee (he really didn't mind)

We set up a Christmas tree for the Zielinskis. They're this adorably musical couple who love missionaries and spoil us far too much

Brother Snider's bike, as seen from the doorway

Week (what now? 14?), Jacksonville

Hi everyone! How was Thanksgiving? Still sleeping off that turkey?

I arrived in Hendricks Avenue on Wednesday and discovered that we had five (5!) Thanksgiving dinners scheduled for the next day. So my first full day in this new area was spent driving all over (we sort of went in a star formation between our five areas), meeting tons of ward members, and eating enough food to make a Hungry Hippo weep. Yes, I used my missionary skills and ate a plate in every house. Sister Zanella enjoyed her first Thanksgiving ever, though she's looking forward to a break from them next November. I'm actually the designated driver, since Sister Zanella's licence expired after a year in the US, so I'm still totally lost whenever we drive anywhere. We have a beautiful silver Chevy Malibu that is just begging for me to do something stupid to it, so please please pray that I don't crash. 

So the ward here is just a regular ward, but it has four sets of missionaries! They just got their third set of sisters this transfer. And the San Jose Ward in the same area has three sets of Spanish-speaking elders. Missionaries are thick on the ground wherever you go here. No one really knows why there are so many of us here, but every decision President Craig has made in his short time here has been unbelievably inspired, so I can't wait to see what comes of this. 

We have a lot of investigators here that Sister Spencer and Sister Zanella have been working with and one in particular, Mark, is progressing amazingly towards his baptism date of Dec 21st. I haven't been fortunate enough to see this myself, but everyone in his apartment complex (we're teaching half of them now) keeps telling us how much he's changed. He really really wanted a suit to wear to church, so he went to a local charity in order to get a free one. However, in order to really prove that they couldn't afford it any other way, everyone there had to eat a meal and spend the night to get the clothes. Since most of the people were homeless, they were all surprised when Mark said "Nah, I've got a place and food and all; I just want the suit!" But it turns out that the charity's bedding had all gotten bedbugs and had to be burned, so Mark slept with two sheets on a concrete floor with 80 other people. The guy next to him was shouting at nothing all night and Mark almost took off right then, but he wanted that suit so badly that he stuck it out, all so he could look his best at church! He's changed his life so much and he's so excited to get baptized. It's just incredible for me to see someone with so much real intent. We meet so many people who use lack of a suit as an excuse not to come to church (not that it even matters what you wear) and I love to see someone really taking things into their own hands instead of waiting for missionaries or members to do it for them. Mark has already kicked cigarettes and alcohol for good in the past few weeks and he's giving up coffee today. It's just amazing to see how happy he is.

Partly because of Brazilian culture and partly because she's Sister Zanella, my companion will very bluntly tell people what is on her mind. For instance, she will always remind people of commitments they're not keeping in a teasing and loving way, but also make it very clear that she doesn't for a second think it's all right that they won't come to church or quit smoking. It's really great because she gets so much farther with investigators than I would have ever thought possible and they always remember exactly why she's there. But no matter who it is, she always connects with them and everyone loves her much, whether or not they accept her invitations to follow Christ. I'm learning so much about being bold in the Spirit of the Lord, though I still fear that I will end up offending someone. But I've already said things to people that I never would have imagined I would be courageous enough to say. Sister Zanella is really good at telling when people won't progress or when they have incredible potential but will just take a lot of time and work, so she is very patient but persistent. I have so much to learn from her but I'm really excited for this chance to work hard and grow.

In personal study today, I studied an awful lot about humility and pride. I've decided that pride is the root of pretty much every and any sin, because it starts with you deciding that your ways are higher than God's ways. So I really don't want to have it, but I seem to have it all the time anyway. In Alma 32:15-16, I noticed that he was discussing the gospel of Jesus Christ (you know, faith, repentance, baptism, Holy Ghost, endure to the end) but instead of saying faith, he actually said humility. I wondered for a second why he would switch those two out, until I realized that this entire cycle of repentance can't start unless you are humble. Why would you ever have faith that Jesus Christ's Atonement could take away sin if you're prideful enough to think you're better than that? Faith and humility go hand-in-hand: only the humble can be faithful, and only those who have faith can receive the blessings of the Lord. So it's all about that humility. Whether I can apply this adequately is another story, but self-perfection is a gradual process. We'll see how I can change. Anyway, love y'all and take care this holiday season!

Love,

Sister Anna Nielsen

My new address:

6650 Corporate Center Parkway Apt 1410 Mailbox 69 

Jacksonville FL 32216

Week 13, St Augustine

Hey everyone!

P-day will be a little bit nuts today since we're all moving out and we're in a tripanionship right now, but I'll tell y'all about what's happening!

The transfer conference call was last night and I will be going to Hendricks Avenue with Sister Zanella as my companion. She's a Temple Square sister from Brazil, so this means that I'm going to learn Portuguese again! Sister Shumway is going to St Augustine Ward, so she's moving to the apartment two blocks down the street. Sister Wallentine already transferred so we are in a tripanionship with Sister Cline, trying to figure out the logistics of getting two apartments and two cars cleaned, as well as three people's luggage packed into one place by 6:00 tonight. Luckily we don't have to go grocery shopping though.

Despite the madness of transfers (all of us actually found out where we were going last Wednesday during interviews with President Craig and our entire district is changing up), we've been trying to teach a lot. One of my favorite investigators is named Janet. She's going blind and can't read the Book of Mormon, so we go over to read with her. She is the sweetest lady ever.

Sorry if I seem out of it; this whole week has been a blur. Turns out the St Augustine Shores Ward really loves us a lot (even if they're forget us soon); they all want to feed us/visit with us the last couple days. We'll do the best we can, but people will still be sad to see us go. Sister Shumway in particular; she's been here six months. She's going just as far as the other ward, though, so she'll be able to see everyone at 9 AM church still. I'll really miss this area. Still, I'm excited to go to a new area and an entirely new pool of investigators.

Other than that, we've been running around and doing a lot of service, raking and putting up Christmas lights and such. Sometimes I feel like we're going seven different directions trying to do everything we should but never manage to get to. At times like this, we just need to rely on the Spirit and pray for guidance in everything we do, because we certainly can't do this on our own. The devil is still tempting us missionaries just as much as anyone else, but he uses different tools for us, most particularly three thoughts: unworthiness, inadequacy, and discouragement. And at times, these seem like good and reasonable thoughts to have, especially inadequacy, because you think that the guilt you feel for your flaws may compell you to change, improve, and become a better person that way. But this week, I finally decided that's really not true. Those feelings are never good and I don't want to feel them, not even as "motivators". Guilt is the worst reason to make you or anyone else do anything: so I've decided I want to change my thinking to this: I have many faults but I want to change them without being overly hard on myself. That's where the Atonement of Jesus Christ steps in, because this is the process by which you refine and improve yourself in a positive way. More than that, if the Atonement can take away all our pains and sins, I believe it can also cleanse us of negative thoughts and character flaws so that we can be more Christlike and come closer to God. The Atonement is incredile. It just covers anything, so long as we can be humble enough to truly repent.

Sorry for a rather dissatifactory report of the week, but that's about it! See y'all next week!

Sister Nielsen

 

Pictures: The elders made us a lovely breakfast at the church last p-day!

Family Home Evening at Jaime's. Perhaps slightly more orderly than the average FHE anyone has...

Week 12, Florida

Hi y'all, 

So this week has been utter madness. Yesterday, we we headed out to find a lone less-active member who lives in the tiny town of Hastings. We went from wow-this-is-a-bit-far to um-we-might-have-just-left-the-mission. But we did find the place and we didn't break the rules, though at one point we were driving on the road that serves as the ward, stake, area, zone, AND mission boundary.

But all the madness is fine because Jaime and Sierra got baptized this Saturday! Which was just incredible. This is the first time anyone I have taught has progressed all the way to baptism. Getting ready for it was utterly crazy though. I was reminding myself constantly that today's trials will be tomorrow's blessings (and tomorrow's funny stories) so now that it's past, I can laugh at everything that happened.

President Herrington (who is a counselor in the mission presidency and who had conducted Jaime's interview) had warned all of us that the week before baptism is usually pretty tough. Jaime was working on quitting smoking and wasn't anticipating anything to be harder than that. But the next day, two people proposed to her out of the blue, which I thought was really hilarious. We'd decided to hold this baptism at the church instead of the beach, which was a lot better based on the weather reports and the health of Jaime's parents, but we first had to scrub the baptismal font for a few hours before we had it sparkling clean again. It was slightly tough to find baptismal clothes for both Jaime and Sierra, though we managed fine in the end. More distressing though, was the news that the entire bishopric was out of town that day, so we asked the high priest group leader, the elders quorum president, and a bunch of other group leaders with no success. So slightly frazzled, we called up President Herrington (who used to be the stake president and could technically preside) and he gave us a definite maybe. So the day of the baptism, in the midst of making a few dozen cookies and trying to convince our speaker that he didn't need ten powerpoint slides for his 3-5 minute talk, President Herrington called and told us that not only was he coming; the entire mission presidency (plus Sister Craig) was coming too! It was great to have them, but we were a little stressed about getting everything perfect, especially since this was the first baptism I have ever put on. By the way, none of this is me complaining about a hard week, but it's funny to see how hard Satan was trying to foil Jaime's baptism and how beautifully it went in the end. Jaime and Sierra were both so happy and beaming. Sierra told me that she'd finally received her answer that this was the right thing for her and how glad she was that she'd taken this step of faith. We had to stall a little bit during the service while we waited for Jaime's parents and sister to make it (they'd driven all the way from Daytona!) but they got there in the nick of time and had a wonderful experience. And while it seemed like the entire ward was out of town/working/had family visiting, everyone's plans suddenly fell through and they showed up to the baptism instead! It was a bit of a trial of faith to see 5:00 roll around and there are 3 people present, but by 5:15 there are 30. It was just miracle after miracle. The Spirit was so strong through the whole thing and it was just perfect. They were so happy and their family was happy to see them happy. Bishop Marsh confirmed both of them in sacrament meeting the next day. Jaime is getting called as a visiting teacher (she requested it) and Sierra is started her Personal Progress and making plans to serve a mission in between school (she wants to become a lawyer). Another miracle: our ward had no Mia Maids at all, but with Sierra and Crystal getting baptized, we now have two! We've gotta find and teach some deacon-age boys now.

I received some interesting insight this week: both Jaime and Sierra have told me how strongly they felt impressed by the Spirit in sacrament meeting. Jaime said several times how real and sincere everyone was, especially when they bore their testimonies. They weren't pretending to be perfect in front of the rest of the congregation, but they were really striving to live the principles and commandments they spoke about. Each time Jaime took me aside to tell me something amazing she'd felt, I'd think something like "Well, I don't see what was so special; it was just a regular meeting. All the speakers were good, for sure, and I learned something valuable, but it wasn't the most spiritual experience I've ever had." (I'm not proud of that thought.) But for Jaime and Sierra, church really WAS the most spiritual experience they've ever had before. It made me realize that out here on a mission and having attended church my whole life, I am immersed enough in the Spirit that I can sort of take it for granted when it is present. I can feel the difference instantly when it is gone, but the people I meet out here don't know that different. As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we know that difference and it is incredible. 

That's about it for this week! Also, transfers next week, so we'll see where I go!

Love everyone,

Sister Nielsen

Pictures: At the baptism!

Sierra dyed Sister Shumway's hair last P-day

The font really did look a lot better afterwards

Also, quotable quotes by Sierra immediately following her baptism: "Wow, I really do feel clean! Thought you guys were kidding about that."

Week 11, Florida

Hey everyone!

I got really sick this week so we didn't go out and do as much as usual, perhaps. That, or I don't remember much. So bear with me.

Cody and Crystal got baptized this Saturday and confirmed on Sunday, which was pretty amazing. They are both great youth and I love 'em. Crystal and Sierra are really good friends and Crystal was the reason Sierra started to attend church, and that's where she encountered Joshua, who gave Jaime the elders' number, so just a whole bunch of miracles coming together amazingly. They are both getting baptized this Saturday as well. We had Crystal and Cody and their dad over at Jaime's house this Friday to watch the Joseph Smith movie and the elders brought Joshua and we tried to bring Victor, so it was a big party.

A lot of times it seems like the plans we make for the day have no bearing on who we actually manage to see that day, so there's a lot of madness all the time. We rush about a lot and try not to get our investigators to hate us too much. We got two more last Sunday night: this sweet old couple named Earl and Betty. They have an LDS son and daughter-in-law so they know a little about the church, because Betty saw my Personal Progress medallion which I randomly decided to wear that day and recognized the Salt Lake Temple. We were able to teach them about eternal marriage and the Plan of Salvation and as we were walking out, Betty said "Take care of that locket, dear! It's so special that you remember your goal." I love the people we get to meet out here. It seems that in Florida everyone is either extremely hostile or extremely friendly with little middle ground, which makes every encounter an adventure.

The other picture is from Kaci's baptism last week. She's nine and lives in the other ward and was taught by Elders Jenkins and Smedley, but she comes to church with her deaf grandmother and so was baptized into our ward. But the font was really dirty and the elders neglected to clean it before they started filling it. But the time we noticed it was too late to refill, so the sisters (cause we don't wear pants and all) hopped into the font to emergency clean out the bugs and scrub the bathtub ring. We did a good job but Sister Cline's legs looked so bad that we checked the temperature and realized that it was 120 degrees. Luckily we noticed before they tried to baptize Kaci.

Here's an awesome pattern that we've been challenging people to use to answer their questions: Read, Write, Pray, Read, Write, Pray. I'd never done exactly that before and I was a little dubious, but it's amazing! If any of you have a serious question that you really need to take up with the Lord, try this. The scripture you read is the only thing you change out every time. Then you write whatever questions and thoughts that come to your mind and then you pray about your question. Then you read exactly what you read before over again, write down your new insights, and pray over again. Then stay on your knees for five minutes or so and just ponder. I promise that if you do this, you will able to receive revelation and peace to your soul. Anyway, that's about it. 

Love y'all!

Sister Nielsen

Week 10 in Florida (woah, already?)

Hey everyone!

This will be real brief cause the timer on this computer (public library) says I only have 22:56 left, but we didn't see as many people as we usually do this week anyway. The reason: among other meetings, Elder Zwick of the Seventy came to our mission, had an extremely intense devotional Wednesday night, and then a 9-hour 5-zone conference the next day. It was, to say the least, mindblowing, and naturally I left my notes at home before I came to write this email. But Elder Zwick basically revealed the future of missionary work and the programs that our mission and a few others will lead the way in establishing. You all already know about Facebook, but that's being expanded in amazing ways. I know people have been talking about missionaries getting iPads for a while, but it was so neat to see him hold up a 1937 version of Preach My Gospel in one hand and one of the new mini iPads in the other and show us how they complement each other. We'll be getting them sometime in 2014 and we'll be able to purchase them for $50 after our missions to insure that we treat them nicely. Our planners, area books, map books, and investigator progress records will all be on there. Any general authority will be able to go to Florida, St Augustine Shores Ward Sisters, and look at our plans for that day (our names won't be attached to them, but everything we put up will be there). The Church is setting up a cloud data plan whatever thingie so that our iPads will be connected to the internet at all times (with missionary-appropriate firewalls) so we can do facebook from there, browse lds.org, pull up a Mormon Message for a lesson, etc. There are other things he said that I've totally forgotten. He was wayyy bolder than I was expecting in calling on the ward councils to unite with missionaries. He comitted every member in the devotional to have a person in their home for the missionaries to teach within ten days. A ton of other things are happening here in the FJM but I don't have time to talk about 'em! Sorry, next week.

Sister Shumway taught Wiley the entire Plan of Salvation in ASL yesterday while I contributed a few sign comments to distract Wiley's little sister (she's 7, hearing, and a little obnoxious). Wiley lives on an Arabian farm, which makes me miss horses a ton. Then we went to find a deaf former gator and encountered his brother David, who committed to come to volleyball. I had no clue how to converse with him and my ASL is still terrible, but then we found out he does jui-jitsu[*] and MMA and then I was able to talk with him just fine. That was a real miracle. All the other sisters ordered ASL nametags and I think I'll order one too, because then it will force me to improve a lot in the 6 weeks or so before it arrives. Don't worry, I'm still studying Portuguese as well. Elder Andrade's native Spanish is a great resource because if I'm reading O Livro de Mormon during facebook time, I can just ask what "rebanho" means instead of stopping to look it up. (It means "herd" or somesuch).

We set up a table in St. George Plaza in the Old City Friday night, where we asked everyone what question they would have for God if he were standing right there and then answered it with the Book of Mormon. We met a lot of really interesting people that way (and almost got eaten by a homeless man's pit bull, but that's besides the point. And mom, of course I'm kidding!) We weren't allowed to go out anywhere on Halloween, so we stayed at a member's house and helped pass out candy, which was possibly the most relaxing time I've had on my entire mission. We're still teaching Jaime and Sierra and they're incredible, but tell y'all bout that later! Sorry, totally out of time, but Naomi is coming on a mini mission with us this weekend and I'll talk about that later too!

Sorry for the multiple apologies.

Love y'all!

Sister Nielsen

Picture: All of us on Halloween. The sisters all dressed as Disney princesses so guess who I am!

*jiu-jitsu

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